We've made some additions and improvements to Notes!

The Notes feature has been added to two action-taking pages:

• You can now add a Note directly on the Add a friend page - handy if you'd like to mark down where you met them or another name you know them by!
• On the Ban and unban users page (under Account -> Privacy) you can now add a Note, including to a group of users all banned at the same time (so that next year you won't need to ask yourself "hey, why did I ban these guys?")

Other changes:

• When you're viewing your existing Notes they're grayed out; click in a field to activate it to change the text (this page can be found from the header by using Profile -> Manage Notes)
• Changes to editing:
  • When you're going to create a new Note but one already exists, you'll get a warning that you're editing an existing Note
  • You can now delete a note from the "Edit note" pop-up in the hover menu
  • You can now delete notes for multiple selected users on the Manage notes page
  • When you change Notes on "Ban|unban users" page, they can be edited and saved with "Save Changes" button

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http://www.avclub.com/articles/november-11-2009,35160/?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=feeds&utm_source=type_savage-love

I am a 30-year-old woman, married for five years to a man eight years my senior. Lately I have become more aware that I am turned on by the idea of bondage, specifically men locked up in chastity devices. I am ashamed of myself, because it seems, well, pretty perverse and disturbed.
My husband is a pretty dominant alpha-male type. I am a relatively dominant personality, but I’m a bit submissive around him in order to keep the peace, as he will not tolerate any disagreement in certain situations. So I am wondering: Is this new fetish springing from ...

5 days into being a TiVo owner and I've started to run into some "issues" due to the *ahem* limited nature of New Zealand television (Let's just say that reruns of Sheepdog-trials from the 1990s make up a large portion of the programming on some of the lesser channels). One of the selling points of the device is the fact that it will monitor what you watch and then record shows you might like. So now every day I'm finding new "gems" waiting for me.

However since there's a limited pool from which the device can get shows I've ended up with some rather bizarre "TiVo Suggestions" such as:

-China TV's CCTV8 Nightly News
-Sunday Morning Religious Programming
-Scooby Doo 2: Monsters Unleashed

So the machines now think that I a) need to learn Mandarin (or possibly Cantonese) b)should find God c)would enjoy anything starring Freddie Prinze Jr. or Sarah Michelle Gellar.

Let's just say that as a result I'll now be using the little "thumbs up/down" buttons a lot to ensure that the bastard knows exactly what I like to watch.

And don't even get me started on the number of Australian Soap-Operas I have to keep deleting. They're like televisual cockroaches.

Current Mood: annoyed

I now have a TiVo.

That statement would seem a lot more exciting/impressive if there were more than 8 channels to watch on it (not including the New Zealand Parliament Channel and Chinese CTV8).

Yes, I know they've been available in the US since 1999 but they just came out here today. Kiwis don't like jumping on bandwagons too quickly.

Current Mood: content

http://www.avclub.com/articles/november-4-2009,34946/?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=feeds&utm_source=type_savage-love

I’m a 20-year-old girl, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend, who is 23, for two years. From the get-go, he has known that I am bi, and like most straight guys, he’s happy to be with a girl who likes girls.
The thing is, I am too shy to go out and hit on a girl. Getting a man was the easy part, but getting a girl who is willing to fuck around not only with me but also with my boyfriend is a daunting task. I encourage my boyfriend to talk to women since he is ...

So far this morning at work I've had 3 people ask "were you in a fight?!!"

and 1 comment of "I can't look at you or I'll have nightmares". I'd like to say I haven't heard that statement before, but I can't.

Current Mood: sleepy